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Legal nuances ‘free’ dowry death accused

Posted by 498A_Crusader on March 18, 2008

MUMBAI: Legal technicality came in the way of justice.

A sessions court on Monday acquitted four accused in a dowry death case because the victim’s dying declaration was not recorded by a special executive officer (SEO).

Rita Baricha, 23, married Hemant in 1997. She gave birth to two daughters. In the first information report (FIR) recorded by the investigating officer, Rita had said that Hemant, her father-in-law Dhanji, her
mother-in-law Madhu and brother-in-law Naresh taunted her regularly for being unable to bear a male child. The entire family lived in a Kanjurmarg chawl.

In her statement, Rita had said that her husband accused her of misbehaving with her in-laws. He also blamed her for ignoring household duties. When she met her parents in Andheri on September 11, 2000, they advised her to keep her husband happy instead of picking up fights with him. 

The next day she had a quarrel with her mother-in-law. While they were arguing, her husband allegedly slapped her and told her to set herself on fire because she had failed to bear a male child. She was doused in kerosene, allegedly by her mother-in-law, and given a matchbox too. Rita apparently set herself on fire inside the bathroom. When she realised she was burning she ran out of the bathroom, according to the prosecution. A neighbour, Sandeep Kadam, wrapped her in a blanket and took her to Rajawadi Hospital. Rita had suffered 85 per cent burns and she died on September 18, 2000.
Special executive officer Suvarna Karanje told the court that she had asked her ‘worker’ to record Rita’s statement. She later signed the declaration, which did not have Rita’s signature.

“The court accepted the first dying declaration (recorded in the FIR). The second one was not accepted because the SEO had not recorded it herself,” said additional public prosecutor Kiran Raykar.

Rita’s father Laxman Baria had filed an affidavit with the police about her daughter being harassed by her in-laws for a male child. But he later told the court that only her mother-in-law (she died during trial) had harassed her and not the other accused.

“If Baria had supported the prosecution, it would have corroborated Rita’s statement in the FIR which was accepted by the court. He backtracked possibly because his two grandchildren live with Rita’s in-laws,” said Raykar.

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More women now raise voice against dowry

Posted by 498A_Crusader on March 18, 2008

The number of cases reported in the past five years has almost doubled

//Yea TRUE, but out of all 98% are False, As per Renuka Chowdhury – eDitor

MUMBAI: The number of dowry-related cases being reported in Mumbai has almost doubled in the past five years. Around 368 dowry cases were registered in Mumbai in 2007 compared with 193 in 2003.

For a cosmopolitan city like Mumbai, the increase in the number of dowry-related offences comes as a surprise. And the reason cited most often is that more women are now refusing to tolerate harassment for dowry by in-laws and spouses.
The concept that originated in the upper-caste families as wedding gifts to the bride from her family gradually became the most dreaded part of women’s lives. But they are now increasingly raising their voice against the menace.

“Women are now aware about the options they have to stand against any kind of violence against them,” said Nirmala Samant-Prabhavalkar, former chairperson of the state women’s commission.

According to her, the scenario began changing ever since the post of the dowry prohibition officer was created at local police stations. “Earlier, such cases were sent to the collector’s office and then came to the police station. However, now the victim does not have to run from pillar to post with her complaint,” Prabhavalkar said.

Joint commissioner of police (law and order) KL Prasad agrees. “Women are now refusing to tolerate such harassment, and several NGOs and other bodies providing guidance to them are proving helpful,” he said.

According to Prasad, the city police are being sensitised to tackle such issues with urgency and empathy. “We are following this procedure of free registration where a police officer will not refuse to register a case unless it is completely unimportant. Dowry harassment cases are treated with an attitude to support the victims,” said Prasad.

He said policemen across the city are also undergoing a sensitising programme for the past few months. The programme also trains them in tackling women related cases.

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SMSes and emails can be used as evidence: Judge

Posted by 498A_Crusader on March 15, 2008

Pune, December 31 Can a child’s testimony be used to verify his father’s hostility towards his mother? How can you prove if a wife’s death was accidental, a suicide or a consequence of marital harassment? What rights does a wife driven out of her husband’s house have, when their divorce is pending in court? These were some of the questions that were answered by the Pune Family Court judge Vinay Borikar as a part of a three-day workshop on the importance of the Indian Evidence Act in women related cases, held on Tadiwala on Sunday.“In the past couple of years, the number of divorce cases has gone up which is accompanied by the urgency to resolve marital disputes as well as deliver justice, if a women is being unfairly treated by her husband,” said Borikar who elaborated the amendments in the Evidence Act that may be used by a victim of violence to her benefit. “Often when women are driven to suicide by the harassment that they face or are killed by husband or in-laws, the victim’s parents and relatives are often unable to procure the evidence to implicate the offenders. However, recent amendments to the Evidence Act has permitted that electronic media can be used as evidence and the result has been that SMSes or e-mails have been submitted to the court, as evidence of harassment,” said Borikar.

“If a married woman commits suicide, which is suspected to have occurred due to harassment from her marital home and if she has confided to her parents about the harassment being meted out to her before her death, the testimony of her parents can be used to prove the case of abetment to suicide,” said Borikar.

According to the Act’s “presumption as to abetment to suicide” section also states that if a women dies ‘accidentally’ or commits suicide within seven years of marriage, and its proved that she was subjected to harassment, then its assumed that the husband and the in-laws must have incited her to take her life, until proven otherwise, he added.

Borikar related his experience in resolving a case of domestic violence when in an effective judgment, given last month, he had ordered a man who had driven out his wife and their two children, to house them in a separate accommodation. The man had refrained from going on higher appeal and had complied with the order.

“With a drastic increase in the crimes against married women, despite specific women-related laws like the Protection of Women against the Domestic Violence Act, 2005, several cases suffer because the victims’ families are unable to furnish the appropriate proof. Hence, we realised that it was essential that women’s organisations, who are the first agency that the bereaved women approach, need to be educated about what kind of relevant evidence will ensure that the women get relief,” said advocate Asuntha Pardhe of the Chetana Mahila Vikas Kendra, that organised the workshop, which was attended by representatives from several organisations in the State.
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Truth About Dowry Law and Its Misuse
Violence at Home A Truth for The Indian Husband
Narcissists Modern Indian Woman?
Indias Legal Tools of Extortion
Reconciliation
TRUE Colour of Media and Women
My Vision My Dream
The Indian GenderBiased Domestic Violence Act
Indian Mens Legal Torture
PRE NUPITAL CONTRACT
Think before get marry Indian Women

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cruelty-to-wife cases can’t be settled out of court

Posted by 498A_Crusader on March 13, 2008

MUMBAI: A high court bench comprising Chief Justice Swatanter Kumar, Justice Dhananjay Chandrachud and Justice J P Devadharowever has ruled that cruelty-to-wife cases can’t be settled out of court. However, the three judges also held that an HC can definitely exercise its power under its inherent jurisdiction, and quash a 498-A complaint in the larger interests of justice, to maintain matrimonial harmony and to prevent abuse of the legal process. The court specified the principles of criminal jurisprudence that need to be followed.

The judgment essentially says that a husband or his family facing a charge under 498-A of inflicting physical or mental cruelty on the wife cannot effect a settlement with her even if the two have patched up or the woman has agreed to forgive her husband or if the charges are based on flimsy pretexts to begin with and prima facie false. This means the husband can get arrested and even convicted and sent to jail for up to three years.

But there could be a way out from the legal quagmire that a husband may find himself in once a 498-A case is slapped on him. For that, however, only the HC can help. The HC has to be moved for quashing of the first information report (FIR), probe or criminal proceedings. The judgment has held that a HC has the power to quash such non-compoundable offences so as “to secure the ends of justice”. However, the judges also held that quashing of a complaint has to be on the basis of the facts of each case and the power must be “sparingly used”.

The 102-page verdict said, “An offence of cruelty under IPC 498-A is not merely a crime between husband and wife but a crime against society, and therefore the parties themselves cannot compound the offence.” The judges have, significantly, also held that not just offences under 498-A, but also other offences such as murder, rape, attempt to murder and causing grievous hurt—which are not specifically mentioned in the law as ‘compoundable’ offences—cannot be settled between the complainant and the accused. Section 320 of the CrPC lists offences that can be settled between parties at any stage of the prosecution.

The issue was referred to a full bench by a single judge of the Bombay high court who had to decide on an appeal filed by a Solapur-based husband Abasaheb Honmane who, after being held guilty of an aggravated form of bigamy and sentenced to jail for five years, had sought the leave of the court to compound the offence and also to set aside his conviction.

A full bench is normally formed in exceptional circumstances when there are conflicting judgments of two or more division benches. Here, it was a single judge who felt that a division bench judgment was not the correct interpretation of law and hence referred it to the Chief Justice since it was an important law point that needed to be settled.

Besides, before the court there were ten other similar cases on the question of compounding of offences such as robbery, dowry harassment, kidnapping, causing serious hurt with weapons, causing a miscarriage without the woman’s consent and so on. In each case, the prayer was that the FIR should be quashed, as the complainant had agreed to settle the matter. Most of these cases had arisen out of disputes in a matrimonial relationship.

The Chief Justice, who wrote the judgment for the bench, noted, “No statute can provide for all situations when the legislature enacts a law.” He said this as one of the points of reference was also whether the high court had the inherent powers to quash or compound complaints when this was not spelt out clearly in any law, including the CrPC, which is the procedural Bible for the criminal law courts.

The full bench held that Section 482 of the CrPC which speaks of the court’s “inherent power” to pass any order to “meet the ends of justice” has “intentionally” been worded widely by the legislature to ensure a larger impact on the procedural law governing investigations and criminal trials. “The inherent powers of the high courts are not meant to be static just like the law is not static and develops and varies according to the progress of time and need of society.”

The HC noted that until recently even a complaint of cheque bouncing was not compoundable but the government recently amended the law to allow parties to go in for “out-of-court settlements”.

Amit Desai, an expert defence counsel, said, “There is a need for criminal law to be amended to make an offence such as Section 498-A compoundable. It is time for the legislature to consider a change in the law since these are private disputes.”

The legislature has provided an alternative statute—the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005, to provide greater safeguards and protection to women by providing for a chance of “resettlement of matrimonial home and relationship prior to actual registration of crime under Section 498-A of IPC”.

But the legislature still did not make the Section 498-A offence compoundable. “While interpreting and implementing the law, legislative wisdom has to be given preference,” the judgment said, adding, “It can very well be presumed that the legislature, while enacting a law, is aware of the difficulties faced in implementation of such a law.”

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Biased TOI published, Hubby can be jailed despite patch-up, Instead cruelty-to-wife cases can’t be settled out of court


Truth About Dowry Law and Its Misuse
Violence at Home A Truth for The Indian Husband
Narcissists Modern Indian Woman?
Indias Legal Tools of Extortion
Reconciliation
TRUE Colour of Media and Women
My Vision My Dream
The Indian GenderBiased Domestic Violence Act
Indian Mens Legal Torture
PRE NUPITAL CONTRACT
Think before get marry Indian Women

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On Women’s Day, do spare a thought for men

Posted by 498A_Crusader on March 6, 2008

Ahmedabad, March 5 After suffering in silence for long, husbands are on the march. And the last one to join their ranks is an NRI businessman who hails from Bhavnagar. Sixty-nine-year-old Deepakbhai Patel (name changed) is involved in a bitter matrimonial dispute. Back in Gujarat, his wife has filed around 70 cases of dowry and domestic violence and property in Bhavnagar and Ahmedabad. The charges are all trumped up, he says, the purpose just to teach him a lesson. That was when an acquaintance in Kuwait told him about an Ahmedabad-based pan-India organisation of men persecuted by disgruntled spouses.

Deepakbhai says: “The Akhil Bharatiya Patni Atyachaar Virodhi Sangh (ABPAVS) gave me strength. I met many men who were similarly wounded, whose wives had lodged frivolous cases against them. I found the resolve to soldier on.”

Dalsukh Patel, a US-based NRI businessman, is in a similar quandary. His wife has filed a dowry case against him and is even in possession of his house in Ahmedabad. “I have to live in a dharamsala, my own house is out of bounds for me. But I will fight to get my name cleared. The support of the Sangh had toughened my resolve,” he says.

The ABPAVS, a organisation of tortured husbands founded in 1994, has seen a small but steady rise in the number of NRIs joining its fold. Of its 32,000 members, 13 are from abroad. Three joined last year, 10 this year.

Dashrath Devda, founder president of the ABPAVS, who was inspired from his own traumatic experience after his wife filed a false dowry case against him, says: “The number of NRI men has definitely increased. There are many more who still have to come out of the closet. In our society, it is not easy for a man to say that he gets beaten by his wife.”

The ABPAVS members does not only include men, but also mothers and sisters of such men.

“The anti-dowry legislation is so clearly loaded in favour of women that men have little chance of fighting it,” Devda says.

“Dowry is a big problem, but men being falsely implicated in it is no small issue.”

The domestic violence law can so easily by misused by a vengeful wife. “We have among our members IAS and IPS officers, doctors, engineers and people from all walks of life. The problem of being exploited by wives is far graver than it is believed to be,” he says.

Membership of the organisation comes after a background check. Men with a history of alcoholism, or violently behaviour are usually shown the door.

Complete personal details of the members, including the cases filed against them, is kept.

To create more awareness and sensitivity in the society about their plight, the ABPAVS is holding a demonstration where over 250 members are expected to attend on March 8 — International Women’s Day.

As Devda, who was a driver by profession, says: “The laws right now are like Maruti Esteem for the women. At least have a small run-down Maruti 800 for the men.”

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EMpower Women with FeminISM
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THE WORLD ACCORDNG to FEMNSTS
Marital Rape a Sabotage of Institute of Marriage
A THOUGHT for ALL FUTURE UNMARRIED MALES
PRE NUPITAL CONTRACT
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WOMEN AGAINST MISUSE OF WOMEN-PROTECTION LAWS

Posted by 498A_Crusader on March 6, 2008

Mothers and Sisters Initiative (MASI)

& All India Forgotten Women

Invites you to an

All Women National Protest on the occasion of

International Women’s Day 2008

WOMEN AGAINST MISUSE OF WOMEN-PROTECTION LAWS

Every 20 minutes an innocent woman is arrested under IPC Section 498A

just because she is related to a man!

Aren’t mothers and sisters women ? Don’t they deserve a life of dignity and respect?

Does penalizing innocent women under false cases bring justice to genuinely abused women?

Does women’s empowerment mean destroying family harmony and creating a fatherless society?

Is protection of women’s rights synonymous with gross violation of basic human rights?

Is legal terrorism the solution to all women’s problems?

In order to address these burning questions, we invite you to join us at

Jantar Mantar, New Delhi

8th March 2008, 11-1 p.m.

Contact: 9810452017 (Dr. Anupama), 09704683163 (Challa Uma), 9810611534 (Swarup)

Supported by :

www.savefamily.org,

www.asha-kiran.org

www.mynation.net

www.protectindianfamily.org

www.saveindianfamily.org



Truth About Dowry Law and Its Misuse
Violence at Home A Truth for The Indian Husband
Narcissists Modern Indian Woman?
Indias Legal Tools of Extortion
Reconciliation
TRUE Colour of Media and Women
My Vision My Dream
The Indian GenderBiased Domestic Violence Act
Indian Mens Legal Torture
PRE NUPITAL CONTRACT
Think before get marry Indian Women

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Dowry demand, Woman given acid to drink, dies

Posted by 498A_Crusader on March 1, 2008

Ghaziabad, Mar 1 (IANS) A 30-year-old housewife died here after she was brutally beaten up by her husband and in-laws demanding more dowry and then given acid to drink instead of water.

Mamta, a resident of Shaheed Nagar locality of this city, was assaulted by her husband Satish and other members of the family on Wednesday night. They demanded that she ask her parents for more money. When she collapsed half-conscious from the beating and asked for water, the husband’s family gave her acid to drink. She died in hospital later.

The police have registered a criminal case against the husband, the father-in-law, mother-in-law and sister-in-law.

According to the police, Mamta, who belonged to Garh Mukteswar in Uttar Pradesh, was married to Satish in 2001. Her husband began harassing her for dowry right thereafter. But Mamta pleaded that her parents were small farmers and could not give more money.

But Satish, whose small shop was not doing well, kept harassing her for money. The couple had three children – Manish (6), Shivam (5) and Beenu (3).

Mamta was taken to Delhi’s Guru Tegh Bahadur Hospital, where she died Thursday night. Her brother Niwas Singh filed a complaint with the police.

Deputy Superintendent of Police Circle Officer S.P. Singh told IANS that all the accused were absconding.

//Law should be equal to all, crime is crime, and crminals should treated with punishent of AN EYE FOR AN EYE.

Truth About Dowry Law and Its Misuse
Violence at Home A Truth for The Indian Husband
Narcissists Modern Indian Woman?
Indias Legal Tools of Extortion
Reconciliation
TRUE Colour of Media and Women
My Vision My Dream
The Indian GenderBiased Domestic Violence Act
Indian Mens Legal Torture
PRE NUPITAL CONTRACT
Think before get marry Indian Women

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HUMAN CHAIN PROTEST on misuse of 498A I.P.C at Mylapore on 23.2.2008

Posted by 498A_Crusader on February 21, 2008

              PRESS RELESE 

HUMAN CHAIN PROTEST on misuse of 498A I.P.C at Mylapore on 23.2.2008 

Save Indian Family Foundation (SIFF) is a registered non-profit, non-funded, non religious, non political and non-governmental organization espousing mainly the cause of saving the Indian Family System from the assault and onslaught of Legal Terrorism.

We have a global membership of 8000 victimized husbands consisting mainly of high earning and/or borrowing middle class IT professionals, Artists, CAs, Doctors, Engineers and Entrepreneurs, Consultants etc. We have a well established presence in the Internet Websites and Blogs. We are constrained to take to streets to attract the attention of the PUBLIC towards our cause. While we strongly fight towards our selfish agenda we also fight for some good common cause

We also espouse the cause of family oriented elder Women, Pregnant Sisters and Minor Girls and innocent Children. They are systematically victimized and tortured as they happened to be the relatives of the husbands. They are the real and worst sufferers of the Legal Terrorism.

We believe the Great Indian Family System is being systematically attacked at the roots so as to eliminate and destroy the precious eastern family values which we consider a treasure to nurture and boast of. We believe the vested western interest that veiled considerable financial clout are behind this attack with an avowed objective of preventing India from becoming the Super Power of the World. This would be evident from the funding pattern of the so called women’s organization like Lawyers Collective. Center for Social Research etc who channel their funds from west

We strongly oppose the misuse of 498A I.P.C, DV Act D P Act etc by the unscrupulous, greedy and unethical wives who are encouraged by the Judiciary, Police and the Advocate fraternity due to the misplaced sympathies or with ulterior motives.

We have great respect for Women. We also consider our mother and sisters in our family as women. We consider that it is only the husband who gives more than 50%  status and respect and we in fact married her while 498a stake holders has extreme lip sympathy only

We demand women be given Equal Rights, Responsibilities and Authority in the Society. We demand true empowerment of women by way of 50% reservation for women in Legislature, Judiciary, Bureaucracy, Police and Army

                           

We are determined to fight against this well organized crime of Blackmail Racket in all its forms and manifestations perpetrated in the name of destitute wife by the unscrupulous wives, Police, Judiciary, Media and the Legal Fraternity.

We strongly believe the intention of the Politicians irrespective of Party affiliations and Legislature is not to persecute the Families but only to prosecute the Dowry takers and wife beaters according to LAW.

Instead of protecting the WOMEN of BPL (Below Poverty Line) families  who are really tortured and beaten up and day in and day out for whose benefit this law was enacted the stakeholders of Blackmail Racket has hijacked the law and systematically extorting the educated and naïve YOUTH of India and destroying their families for the sake of money. They do not file cases on Rishshaw wallas and coolies who torture their wives even in public as they do not have huge money to be extorted

We strongly believe that under the guise of protecting women  the Police, Judiciary and Legal Fraternity has formed an invisible Cartel and persecuting the Indian Family System and created an 498a Industry with a turnover of not less than Rs3000 crores per annum and happily sharing the booty while the Media is unwittingly aiding the cartel

We have been peacefully conducting public protests / morhcas / dharanas / conferences throughout our country and abroad for the past 5 years.

We publicly protest the gross apathy and seek the attention of  the Government, Judiciary and the Bureaucracy who have failed to arrest the misuse of the above legal provisions, by unscrupulous money minded extortionist blackmailers

We are protesting in public near Nageswara Rao Park, Mylapore on 23.2.2008 between 9 AM to 6 PM, We expect a gathering of minimum 300 victimized husband with their family members. This public protest is likely to be inaugurated and held in the presence & blessing of  Mr. Prasanth – Cine Personality,Mr. Prandurang Katti – Save India Family Foundation,

We invite you surf thro the innumerable.valuable and relevant resources available at the following websites and blogs www.saveindianfamily.org; www.498a.org; http://mynation.net ; etc

We submit that we are all law abiding citizen of this country and opposed to the misuse of criminal laws in all its forms and manifestations enacted for the benefit of WIFE only and to the detriment of sister-in-laws and mother-in-laws by the unscrupulous elements of the society which is leading to the eclipse of The GREAT INDIAN FAMILY SYSTEM

We seek your Valuable your patronage and support for the just cause we are fighting against and help us in reaching the General Public with our message and demands

 Contact Information for Media  Suresh 99410 12958; Manoj David 98807 10551 ; Uma Chella  97046 83163; Girish 93810 26333

All India Help line number : 98106 11534
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For tormented hubbies, how to survive IPC 498A

Posted by 498A_Crusader on February 17, 2008

Priced at Rs 51, the book brought out by a group of NGOS for men helps husbands hit back at spouses who make false charges of dowry harassment, domestic abuse and blackmail

NEW DELHI: What would you do if the police were to knock on your door in the middle of the night after your angry wife has filed a false dowry harassment and domestic violence case against you?

Don’t panic. And do not look to the cops for help either. Instead, delay things. Sit on the potty, compose yourself. Call your lawyer. And the neighbours as witness – there have been instances where neighbours have convinced police to leave without making an arrest. Record your conversation with police on mobile phone etc.

Keep your wits about you and don’t go with the cops to police station on a Friday – as the next two days being holidays means you won’t get bail till Monday. Then read Wrong gender biased law/ a guide on how to survive 498A.

Brought out by a group of non-government organisations (NGO) for men, the book, the first of its kind in India will help husbands know how to handle Indian Penal Code 498A, a law which has, of late, been allegedly misused by angry spouses to settle scores with husbands and in-laws. The book will help men deal with false allegations, court cases and arrests. It will be available on stands for Rs51.

Section 498A of India Penal Code came into existence to combat domestic violence and protect women from dowry harassment. For those convicted, it is a cognisable, non-bailable and non-compoundable offence for cruelty filed along with Dowry Prohibition Act.

However, men are crying foul over the misuse of this law and are campaigning to prevent its misuse. Under the aegis of the Gender Human Rights Society, organisations like 498A.org, Rakshak, Save Family Foundation, MyNation, Mothers and Sisters Initiative (MASI) etc, have made representations before the Law Commission, ministries and other fora to voice their concerns. They now plan to file a PIL in the Supreme Court.

“Through a Right to Information application, we discovered that approximately 58,000 498A cases are filed each year and more than a lakh people get arrested in false cases. Every four minutes, one man is falsely accused of dowry harassment. And every 2.4 hours, one senior citizen is falsely accused of dowry demands,” said Sandeep Bhatia, president of Gender Human Rights Society.

“The purpose of the book is to enable men to have the information and the necessary tools to protect themselves and family from legal terrorism. This document and the supporting material in the form of judgments/ links/ articles will enable him to fight this extortion racket known as Section 498A of the Indian Penal Code,” said Mahesh Tiwari, a Supreme Court lawyer who is also part of the campaign. The book also contains suggestions on retaliatory measures a husband and his family can take in case they are charged with false allegations.

“Filing a false case is an act of cruelty and hence, a strong ground for divorce. But before that, if a husband anticipates a situation where his wife or in-laws can frame him, he should immediately file a complaint in police against threat, abuse or blackmail he faces from his wife or her family. Women members of the family too should lodge a complaint before National Commission for Women to bring pressure to bear on the wife. But most importantly, file a case under IPC section 182 for perjury and criminal defamation,” Tiwari recommends.

And if at all you are arrested then: “Throw the rule book at their face. Make all sort of demands. Don’t co-operate and be non-confrontational while asserting your rights. Be stubborn. Whether you are guilty or not is for the trial court to decide,” the book says.

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No Alimony
THE WORLD ACCORDNG to FEMNSTS
EMpower Women with FeminISM
GREAT INDIA GONE to DOGS
THE WORLD ACCORDNG to FEMNSTS
Marital Rape a Sabotage of Institute of Marriage
A THOUGHT for ALL FUTURE UNMARRIED MALES
PRE NUPITAL CONTRACT
Indian Mens Legal Torture

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Donation Please – Late Mr. Pushkar Singh’s family – Lucknow

Posted by 498A_Crusader on February 11, 2008

Pushkar SinghPushkar Singh Mother
Life is precious and one cannot bring back Pushkar Singh from dead.
However, we can do our bit to help his family survive this crisis as their only son and the source of their lively hood is taken away. We can save them from the state of near starvation they are found today. Members of Save Family Delhi have conducted a “Shok Sabha” (Mourning Meet) for him on February 10 near his home and have donated about 15,000/- to cover their immediate needs of livelihood.

You can offer your condolences or directly help Late Mr. Pushkar Singh’s family which is in dire financial situation, in any way you see fit. The account details of Mrs. Parvati Devi (Mother of Late Pushkar Singh) are listed below.

A/c No.: 1853000300052904
Bank branch: Punjab National Bank, 80, Indira Nagar, Lucknow.PIN Code: 226021
A/c holder: Parvati Devi, 10/374, Indira nagar, Lucknow.
Shishupal: Pushkar’s elder brother-in-law: 9956831376.
Arjun: Pushkar’s younger brother-in-law: 9956289966

If you know anyone who is facing similar abuse, please direct them to contact us[CLICK HERE] which has an all India network of volunteers providing free counseling and legal advice to victims and help them get Justice.

Do not forget to congratlate Vineeta: Brave wife of Late Mr. Pushkar Singh on: 05322-695777

God knows,still how many innocent life these women organisation want, and others who support such biased laws

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NATIONAL COMMISSION OF WOMEN (NCW) CHAIRPERSON GIRIJA VYAS EXPOSED LYING

Posted by 498A_Crusader on February 11, 2008


First it was honourable Mrs. Renuka Chowdhury , Union Minister , Women and Child Development Ministry found deliberately lying during Gujarat Assembly Elections , 2007 ( SEE HER EXPOSURE IN OUR WEBSITE WITH A VIDEO CLIPPING AND THE RELATED STORY) and now it is the turn of one of the highly controversial commission , National Commission of Wife – Sorry – Women to be exposed lying.

Some weeks back, there was a programme on a highly reputed NDTV TV channel in Hindi called as News Point where honourable Ms.Girja Vyas , Chairperson of the NCW was having a healthy debate with Dr.Anupama Singh , a member of Save India Family Foundation (SIFF) on the subject of DOWRY IN INDIA.

Ms.Girja Vyas was found saying that a proposal has been sent to the parliament for amendment in dowry prohibition act,1961 where “DOWRY GIVERS TOO HAS SUBSTANTIAL PUNISHMENT PROVISION AND THE PUNISHMENT HAS TO BE INCREASED FOR THEM TOO ”.

Now Friends , YOU WILL BE SHOCKED on this statement as the fact is that the proposal which NCW has sent says – DOWRY GIVERS SHOULD BE EXCLUDED FROM PUNISHMENT. This fact is available on the website of NCW at www.ncw.nic.in in legal amendments proposed column.

AN EXTRACT FROM WEBSITE OF NATIONAL COMMISSION OF WOMEN LEGAL AMENDMENTS PROPOSED Amendment to the Dowry Prohibition Act,1961:

  • To transfer the substantive provisions under the Indian Penal Code.
  • Dowry givers should be excluded from punishment.
  • Appointment of Dowry Prohibition Officers.
  • The Marriage expenses should be limited to 20% of the annual income of the girl’s parents/guardian.
  • National Conference on Review of the Dowry Prohibition Act, which was held in November, 2005
  • See the video and you will realize that how cheaply she is deliberately lying.

    Both these high profile public servants needs to be sacked with immediate effect. There should be no place for liars in the public life.

    Oh God , please save our beloved innocent Indians from these type of public servants.

    By: Vijay Wadhwani – Gujarat.

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    Pushkar singh – Shokh Sabha – We Want Justice

    Posted by 498A_Crusader on February 11, 2008

    We Can not Arrest Indian women, Even if she murder her husband, We Need Proof
    We Can not Arrest Indian women

    But We can Arrest Indian men only, on suspicion, Even If his wife run away with her lover

    We can Arrest Indian men only

    We Want Justice; Why this Bias, Under constitution of India, All Are Equal, If Police Cann`t Arrest criminal women,who drive her husband to commit suicide; then its Mockery of Constitute, and Judiciary.

    We Want Justice
    Source :>>

    Truth About Dowry Law and Its Misuse
    Violence at Home A Truth for The Indian Husband
    Narcissists Modern Indian Woman?
    Indias Legal Tools of Extortion
    Reconciliation
    TRUE Colour of Media and Women
    My Vision My Dream
    The Indian GenderBiased Domestic Violence Act
    Indian Mens Legal Torture
    PRE NUPITAL CONTRACT
    Think before get marry Indian Women

    No Alimony
    THE WORLD ACCORDNG to FEMNSTS
    EMpower Women with FeminISM
    GREAT INDIA GONE to DOGS
    THE WORLD ACCORDNG to FEMNSTS
    Marital Rape a Sabotage of Institute of Marriage
    A THOUGHT for ALL FUTURE UNMARRIED MALES
    PRE NUPITAL CONTRACT
    Indian Mens Legal Torture

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    NATIONAL CRIME RECORDS BUREAU 2006 DATA

    Posted by 498A_Crusader on February 11, 2008

    NATIONAL CRIME RECORDS BUREAU 2006 DATA

    Source :>>

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    Husbands cant take it any more

    Posted by 498A_Crusader on February 11, 2008

    KOLKATA, Feb. 10: Married men can’t take it anymore. Rising prices, mounting responsibilities and their wives implicating them in dowry cases is driving men to suicide. The latest data released by the National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB 2006), shows that the ratio of married men to married women who committed suicide in 2006 is 5:3. The 2006 report also states that the national ratio of men to women committing suicide is 64:36.
    The NCRB report further states that a high pendency was observed in Dowry Prohibition Act (43.6% each) in 2006. A total of 7.8 per cent cases of Cruelty by Husband or Relatives were found false or related to mistake of law.
    A 30-year-old man, Pushkar Singh, committed suicide by hanging himself from a ceiling fan at his home in Jankipuram area of Vikas Nagar in Lucknow. In his suicide note, he wrote: “I was sent to jail after a false dowry case was lodged against me by my wife Vinita and her family, who demanded Rs 14 lakh as compensation. Neither my father nor I had seen such a big amount in our lives. We even sold our house to contest the case.”
    Singh is just one of the several thousand men who committed suicide after being implicated falsely in dowry cases by their wives and in-laws. Save Indian Family Foundation, a countrywide network of support groups for such men and their families, has been fighting for men’s rights to be included in the national legal framework for a long time.
    “We come across such cases of men who turn suicidal after their wife and in-laws try to extort money from them after filing a false case under IPC 498A, frequently. We do our best to help such people through counselling. But it’s the Indian legal framework, which considers the rights of wives, but not that of men, their mothers and sisters, that is at fault,” said Mr Srinivas Rao, treasurer, SIFF. He cited a case in which a man from Kalyani attempted suicide after he and his family were falsely implicated under 498A. “Ultimately, we arranged for a settlement between the two parties, in which the man had to pay Rs 1.5 lakh to his wife and in-laws,” Mr Rao said.
    SIFF says the high ratio of male to female suicides is largely due to domestic cruelty against men. The NCRB report 2006 says that more men in the age group of 30 and 44 years committed suicide than those in other age groups. It was observed that 72.2 per cent of the suicide victims were married while 20.7 per cent were unmarried. The number of married men who committed suicide was 55,452 and number of married women who committed suicide was 29,869 in 2006.
    False cases registered under IPC 498A, which is non-bailable, make it difficult for complainants who have genuine cases to get justice. The same NCRB report also states that the proportion of female suicides is more under dowry disputes.

    Source :>>

    Truth About Dowry Law and Its Misuse
    Violence at Home A Truth for The Indian Husband
    Narcissists Modern Indian Woman?
    Indias Legal Tools of Extortion
    Reconciliation
    TRUE Colour of Media and Women
    My Vision My Dream
    The Indian GenderBiased Domestic Violence Act
    Indian Mens Legal Torture
    PRE NUPITAL CONTRACT
    Think before get marry Indian Women

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    Suicide Note of Pushkar Singh – Lucknow

    Posted by 498A_Crusader on February 8, 2008

    In India if a married women run away with her lover, police arrest her husband on suspicion that he killed her and hiding her body when they unable to trace her.

    In India, if husband catch his wife with her lover, in that insult if she commit suicide, police take action terming suicide as dowry death.

    Same, In India if a man commit suicide and left a note blaming and making his wife responsible for his death, why Indian law is not arresting or taking action on his wife.
    Because GREAT INDIA, gone to dogs.
    Suicide Note of Pushkar Singh - Lucknow

    Suicide Note1 of Pushkar Singh - Lucknow
    Truth About Dowry Law and Its Misuse
    Violence at Home A Truth for The Indian Husband
    Narcissists Modern Indian Woman?
    Indias Legal Tools of Extortion
    Reconciliation
    TRUE Colour of Media and Women
    My Vision My Dream
    The Indian GenderBiased Domestic Violence Act
    Indian Mens Legal Torture
    PRE NUPITAL CONTRACT
    Think before get marry Indian Women

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    Request to join Shok Sabha’of Pushkar Singh

    Posted by 498A_Crusader on February 7, 2008

    Request to join ‘Shok Sabha’ of Pushkar Singh

    Legal Terrorism of India takes away one more Husband’s Life.

    More than 52000 Indian Husbands commit suicide every year as per Crime Bureau of India

    When a wife commits suicide when caught with her lover, not only the husband, but his mother sister are also arrested without any evidence. Why such biased treatment to husbands suicide,even suicide note make wife responsible?

    LOCATION : Sector C, Jankipuram Park, LUCKNOW

    In Front of Khushhali Montessory School, Jankipuram

    TIMING : 10 AM, 10th February 2008

    PRESS RELEASE: 1 PM

    Contact : 9839097522 (Yaksh), 9810611534 (Swarup) 9999107314 (Kamal)

    9818509406 (Wasif), 9811656810 (Neeraj)

    Organized Jointly by:

    http://www.savefamily.org,

    http://asha-kiran.org

    http://mynation.net

    http://protectindianfamily.org

    http://www.siftimes.com

        

    “Parivar Bachao Desh Bachao, Save the Indian Family”

    Pushkar Singh Amar rahe.

    NCW, NOW YOU WILL PAY FOR HIS INNOCENT BLOOD

    1)False dowry case? Man kills self – By Indian Express News
    2)Man facing law in dowry case commits suicide–By Khaleej Times
    3)Harassed by wife & in-laws, man kills himself–By Asian Age
    4)False dowry case? Man kills self Express news
    5)Man facing law in dowry case commits suicide
    6)Harassed by wife & in-laws, man kills himself

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    False dowry case – Man kills self

    Posted by 498A_Crusader on February 7, 2008

    Lucknow, February 6 A 30-year-old man, Pushkar Singh, committed suicide by hanging himself from a ceiling fan at his home in Jankipuram area of Vikas Nagar, on Wednesday.
    In a suicide note, addressed to the Allahabad High Court, Singh alleges that he was framed in a dowry case by his wife Vinita and her relatives, due to which he had to spend time in judicial custody for four months.

    The Vikas Nagar police registered a case later in the day.

    “During the investigation, if we find it necessary to question Vinita, we will definitely record her statement,” said BP Singh, Station Officer, Vikas Nagar.

    Pleading innocence and holding his wife responsible for the extreme step he was taking, Singh’s note states: “I was sent to jail after a false dowry case was lodged against me by Vinita and her family, who had demanded Rs 14 lakh as a compensation. Neither my father nor I had seen such a big amount in our lives. We even sold our house to contest the case.”

    According to reports, Singh married Vinita about two years ago and lived in Allahabad since.

    Early last year, his wife left him and started living with her family.

    A case under Sections 323 (voluntarily causing hurt), 498 (A) (cruelty by husband or relatives of husband) and 504 (intentional insult) was lodged by Vinita and her relatives before she left him.

    In the note, Singh wrote he was in the Naini Central Jail from “September 29 to December 24, 2007”.

    Shishupal Singh, Singh’s brother-in-law, said he was disturbed ever since he released from jail. The court case constantly haunted him.

    “After he was bailed out, he was living with his mother, younger sister and a physically-challenged brother in a rented house in Jankipuram.” The family had their own house in Indira Nagar, which was recently sold to meet the legal expenses, he added.

    “While he searched for a job, he drove a three-wheeler for a living. A few days ago, he received a notice from the court and since then, he stopped stepping out of the house,” he said.

    In the note, Singh further wrote: “I would also like to request Vinita not to harass my family in future. It was my mistake to marry her and I am repenting it by sacrificing my life.”

    Source :>>

    Truth About Dowry Law and Its Misuse
    Violence at Home A Truth for The Indian Husband
    Narcissists Modern Indian Woman?
    Indias Legal Tools of Extortion
    Reconciliation
    TRUE Colour of Media and Women
    My Vision My Dream
    The Indian GenderBiased Domestic Violence Act
    Indian Mens Legal Torture
    PRE NUPITAL CONTRACT
    Think before get marry Indian Women

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    AIDWA for review of judgment on dowry

    Posted by 498A_Crusader on February 5, 2008

    NEW DELHI: The All-India Democratic Women’s Association will file a review petition in the Supreme Court next week against its order that said demands for customary gifts, and payments given at the time of birth of a child or during ceremonies was not dowry. It wanted the government to re-define dowry to avoid its misinterpretation.

    Talking to reporters here on Friday, AIDWA general secretary Sudha Sundararaman said this was the third judgment of the apex court in which it had been held that demands made after the marriage for various reasons and on various occasions did not amount to dowry.

    “We feel that the judgment totally misinterprets the definition of dowry. The definition of dowry in the Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961 states that dowry is money or valuable security given before, at the time of, and after the marriage, in connection with the marriage. The words ‘in connection with the marriage’ obviously means that the articles have been demanded as a result of the marital relationship between the parties,” she said.

    Adversely affects marriage’

     

    “It has been AIDWA’s experience over the past 20 years that the demands for dowry have always been made on occasions of festival, birth of a child, anniversaries, and other such events. The penalty for non-compliance by the girl’s family are grave and adversely affect the marriage between the parties,” Kirti Singh, the legal cell convenor, said.

    Dowry also had a direct link to son preference, female foeticide, and women not receiving their due share of property in their parental homes.

    Regressive

     

    Meanwhile, the National Federation of Indian Women has expressed shock over the ruling, and described it as regressive.

    In a statement issued here, NFIW general secretary Annie Raja said the ruling in a way diluted the existing dowry laws and justified the practice of dowry.

    Source :>>

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    Feminism in India has no integrity. You can’t trust it

    Posted by 498A_Crusader on February 5, 2008

    Madhu Kishwar is a fearless and provocative thinker, unafraid to ride againt the wave. In part 6 of the Tehelka series on public intellectuals, she discusses her controversial positions on dowry, sati, the family and feminism with Shoma Chaudhury

    You were a pioneer. But you are seen to have taken a very divergent route, of having moved away from your own ideas to arrive at some problematic positions on dowry, sati, etc.The funny thing is my views have not become different. When I started Manushi, the people who now express outrage at my supposed non-feminist stands attacked me then for being a feminist and for being anti-men. As Miranda House president I ran a campaign against the college beauty contest. Leading feminists of India today fought for the beauty contest. They thought it was a glorious symbol of liberated womanhood. Then they went abroad and realised beauty contests were not fashionable and came back with ultra feminist ideas. There were others who attacked me for being a bourgeois feminist — these were the ones who’d turned leftist after going to Columbia and Cambridge. Others called me a radical feminist who was teaching women to become lesbians and rape each other. (Laughing) All this simultaneously. But right from the beginning, I’ve been very averse to label warfare. I found my freedom by saying I’m not a feminist. I’m not any ‘ist’. Isms work like an aids virus on your brain. You don’t evaluate issues on merits. You brush inconvenient facts under the carpet because everything must fit into this very neat ideological framework. Even before I disowned the label publicly by writing my most controversial essay — Why I’m Not A Feminist — I never used the feminism mantra to prove my bonafides. I believe your politics has to be pro people, pro women — and you have to demonstrate this concretely.

    What is your position on sati?

    The whole discourse on sati is so colonial minded, I’m appalled people don’t give up bad habits. Firstly, take the word sati. Its literal translation is one who is so possessed by ‘sat’ (the spirit of truth), her body self ignites. Such a case might happen once in a thousand years. For even the most conservative and rabid Hindu, it does not mean a woman dragged and thrown into her husband’s pyre by force or fraud. There are five mahasatis in the mythological tradition — Draupadi, Kunti, Mandodari, Sita, Tara — none of them burnt on their husband’s pyres. So what I say is this: if you are saying a Roop Kanwar or Charan Shah was dragged on to their husband’s pyre — it’s murder, why call it sati? The British made that mistake; Ram Mohun Roy made that mistake. If a woman jumps into the pyre without provocation, it’s suicide. But Romeo and Juliet’s suicide for each other evokes awe, and it remains one of the most celebrated love stories of all time. Why resent the same thing in Indian people? Learn to distinguish between crime and culture. Murder is a crime. If it’s suicide — especially if there’s no fanfare like in the case of Charan Shah, the 55-year old widow who jumped into the pyre after everyone had left — you can feel sorry she was so depressed. But her poor family didn’t even know she’d jumped in. They were so poor they couldn’t afford his TB treatment. None of these feminists were there when this woman was nursing him. But at his death, they agitate to get her whole family and village arrested! This colonial minded aggression of the elite against the poor — they don’t dare do that when Natwar Singh’s daughter-in-law jumps to her death, god knows under what circumstance. No feminist dared to yell and scream there —

    What about the glorification of these deaths?

    Glorification shouldn’t happen, but you can’t prevent people from glorifying. Look at Princess Diana, the most stupid woman in the history of womankind, who flung herself at the most worthless men in the world — she’s glorified by the British people. Should I send them to jail? People glorify the Kali-Chandi roop of the Devi. I hate blood and gore, should I send them to jail? The beauty of traditional society in India is that it allows you to worship women in diverse manifestations. You can pick and choose your own role models. Why do feminists assume the right to tell people, don’t worship Sita because she’s not a feminist favourite, don’t worship Radha because she’s besotted by male love. Worship only the ferocious versions of the goddess. Venerating a sati sthal doesn’t lead to women jumping on pyres. How many satis have there been — 40 or 50 in the last 60 years? Many more gruesome deaths happen for other causes. The women’s movement is so fascist minded, the need to fall in line is so intense, I feel choked. You can’t speak the truth: they want lies. I say a large part of feminist reports are half lies and exaggerated falsifications.

    You have unpopular arguments against the Domestic Violence Bill and dowry laws. Firstly, I say laws must reflect social consensus. Secondly, they must work like small, judicious antibiotic doses. Targeted at specific points of infection and never overused. Antibiotics can’t become food substitutes. Thirdly, anyone imposing a law must prove the law can work. Workability and acceptance, these are very important.

    When I believed dowry needed to be abolished, I took a vow that I wouldn’t go for any dowry wedding. For 13 years, I didn’t attend a single wedding because no wedding qualified. Feminist friends, lawyers, ias officers, mps, everyone exchanged elaborate gifts. That’s when I realized the real issue here was that women had no inheritance rights, daughters are not treated as equal members viz. family property. I was again accused of bourgeoise feminism by feminists who themselves would not part with ten rupees. What I say is, if you will not live by your own ideas, how dare you presume to legislate for one billion and a half people? You have no moral right! Morning shout slogans outside other people’s homes, evening wear your kanjeevarams and go…

    But hasn’t the debate created deterrence?

    Has dowry decreased? It has spread horizontally to groups that never practiced it before. Communities that were bride price paying till the last generation are today practicing dowry. What is the point of this wonderful awareness? I don’t like the form and shape dowry has taken. It is a caricature. I still stand for stree dhan: the inalienable property given to a woman at the time of her marriage. A share of property no one could touch, not even her husband. From there we have moved to groom price. It is no longer anything to do with a daughter’s perceived share. So what I’m saying is restore women’s inheritance rights. Not draconian laws that can be abused.

    Feminists are only sensitive to a woman in the role of a young bride. In every other role — a mother-in-law, sister-in-law, bhabi — we think of her as a tormentor. Where does this conception come from? We have to focus on strengthening bonds within the family.

    How do you do that? Those are private spaces.

    If your idea of a family is only the western nuclear Americanised family where everybody else is a nuisance — well then you can’t. The strength of our culture lies in strong family and community roots. You can’t strengthen women’s rights by breaking down the family.

    Don’t joint families impinge on individuals?

    You need to sort that out. I’m not for oppressive families. In a traditional Hindu joint family, every member had an inalienable right to the property. This made women secure. As for adjustment, that’s a process of give and take. You adjust with everyone. Bosses, colleagues, neighbours. Yet, working out healthy equations with family has somehow become a sign of mental slavery. A child who lives in a joint family deals with a range of people from 85 years to eight months every day. What else is eq? What else is human skill learning? But for many feminists, getting along with a mother-in-law, or even having a happy marriage is a sign of slavery! That’s where my emotional break with the movement came from. This insistence on joyless, confrontational living. The least you owe to yourself is to have lives that other people can look at and envy! Feminism is inviting such disdain and backlash in India because it lacks both fighting power and integrity. In the west at least, women fought bitter battles. Here, men led the way. The Gandhis, the Phules. I’m not ashamed to acknowledge that.Your are now intensely focused on street vendors. Where do you stand on issues of liberalisation and globalisation?

    I’ve never been what I call a compulsive womaniser! Right from the start, we’ve had a commitment to tribals, dalits, the farm sector. So in 1991, when economic reforms were adopted in India, I was shocked to find that those who claimed to be pro-poor turned anti reforms. As if de-statising, de-bureaucratising the Indian economy is quintessentially anti-poor. I think in this sector Manushi was the only organization who stood firmly to say the poor need economic reforms far more urgently than the rich, that we need a bottom up approach to liberalisation. For the poor, it is a life and death issue; for them corruption routinely takes the form of human rights abuses — beatings, extortion, violence, terror. We made a film on the street vendor and cycle rickshaw sectors. Our work showed in Delhi alone, these two groups of self employed poor pay at least 50 crore per month by way of bribes. In addition there are beatings, harassment, confiscation of goods, jails. So began the whole campaign.

    The policies of the government against vendors is bizarre! They stipulate the numbers allowed, then they don’t issue licenses for 5-10 years. We said, let the market dictate the number of vendors. And if you are prejudiced against their hygiene, we will create a model to show how they can be accommodated into the economy of a city. Finally we were given 159 vendors in Sewa Nagar and we have created the first completely bribe free zone; stalls, toilets, public spaces all made by the vendors themselves. We’ve gone through hell – but we’ve done it. We will soon be ready to make it public. Then I think there will be a real ground swell.

    Source :>>

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    IN SUPPORT OF THE RECENT JUDGMENT OF THE SUPREME COURT OF INDIA

    Posted by 498A_Crusader on February 4, 2008

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    We support Supreme Court’s recent Judgment whereby it clarified that gifts are not dowry (as per news report in TOI)Demand for Gift after marriage is not Dowry Says Supreme Court of India
    The Supreme Court has ruled that demand for money and presents from parents of a married girl at the time of birth of her child or for other ceremonies, as is prevalent in society, may be depreciable but cannot be categorized as dowry to make it a punishable offence. This means, if a daughter-in-law is being harassed for customary gifts by parents-in-law, then they could be booked under ordinary penal provisions but not under the tough anti-dowry laws providing stringent punishments. Acquitting the parents-in-law of a woman who had accused them of harassing her for dowry, a Bench comprising Justices Arijit Pasayat and S Sathasivam took help of a 2001 judgment of SC to say that not all demands from the parents-in-law could be categorized as dowry under the Dowry Prohibition Act. It said though the Act covers payment of money or articles during, before or after marriage by the girls parent to her in-laws, the cash and presents given had to have a link with the marriage to become objectionable in law. Other payments which are customary payments, for example given at the time of birth of a child or other ceremonies as are prevalent in different societies, are not covered by the expression dowry, said Justice Pasayat, writing the judgment for the Bench.
    A Haryana trial court had continued the dowry harassment charges against the woman’s husband while acquitting the parents-in-law, the married sister and brother of the husband. Though the high court allowed quashing of charges against the sister and brother, it said the parents-in-law were liable to be proceeded against. The apex court said that when the trial court had held that an attempt had been made by the woman to rope in as many relatives of her husband as possible, the HC should have given some reasons while reversing a well-reasoned order.
    It said judicial discipline demanded the HCs to give clear reasons when reversing a trial court order backed by facts. Reasons substitute subjectivity by objectivity. The emphasis on recording reasons is that if the decision reveals the ‘inscrutible face of the sphinx’, it can, by its silence, render it virtually impossible for the courts to perform their appellate function or exercise the power of judicial review in adjudicating the validity of the decision, the Bench said.

    Prior to this ruling, our lawmakers as well as the radical feminist organizations had never opened their eyes or tried to understand the basis behind the same, and the result was more and more misuse of Dowry Laws. Thus far, we have been silent witnesses to the extortion of money or obtaining custody and a legal advantage in the divorce case in more than 98% of the false dowry complaints (as per the court records), where it is the wife’s family that is demanding and taking money from the husband’s family in open court (in return for them agreeing to have the husband/his family released from jail) and the same is not considered a crime.

    The bride and groom’s family in every culture around the world give gifts. Dowry itself is a bogus word that did not exist in India prior to the arrival of the British who had been practicing it for centuries (without a single dowry complaint having been filed in England). However, the word ‘Dowry’ has been misused by the radical Indian feminist organizations and the greedy/money minded girls’ families who hide behind the word ‘Dowry’ and cheat their own daughter/sisters basic right on Streedhan and equal right in parental property and always treat the husband’s family as a free ATM machine.

    The Save Family Foundation and their associate organizations, and even Ms. Madhu Kiswar, have continuously demanded and urged that if any one harasses others for any money or property the same should be termed as Extortion or Blackmail. However, our lawmakers failed to accept that. Finally, the Supreme Court of India has understood that each and every dispute should not be termed as Dowry Harassment which is one small step towards stopping the Legal Terrorism and rampant Misuse of 498A, DV act and CRPC125 maintenance act.

    Every 4 minutes in India an innocent person (who never demanded any dowry or money from the wife/daughter-in-law) including old mothers/pregnant sisters/children are facing false and fabricated Dowry cases and sent behind bars without any evidence (since no evidence is required and 498A is non-bailable). Despite the Law commission and various judges’ recommendations to make 498A a bailable offence, our lawmakers have not made any effort to save the innocent people who are being victimized by the abusive women and their families. We must stop this legal terrorism (as termed by the Supreme Court of India) by our radical women organizations that openly advocates and legitimizes adultery by the wife and killing of the unborn child (against the husband’s wishes).

    We applaud the recent judgment of the Supreme Court of India whereby it clarifies that gifts are not dowry. We request the Supreme Court of India to set up an in-depth review by a panel of happily married lawyers, retired judges, elders and representatives from the men’s organizations that should also look into the complaints regarding the misuse of these laws. All laws that affect families should also take into account that mothers and sisters are women too, and it takes two to tango.

    The Hon’ble Supreme Court in Batra v Batra rightly decided that the right should only available to a woman in a household owned by the husband and not in the household owned by the in laws, even though it may have been the shared household. In a country where the joint family pattern of residence is then norm, any other judgment virtually gives a license to women to throw out senior citizens from the own home with the help of a bad law. Every family has a right to live free from abuse. Denial of the right to reside in their own home for senior citizens is one of the most extreme forms of abuse, rendering the parents and grandparents homeless and insecure. There are numerous concerted efforts being made among the radical women’s groups to abuse these badly drafted gender baised laws.

    We, the undersigned, therefore support the Supreme Court of India whereby it clarified that gifts are not dowry and request the following:

    · Review the complaints of all those crying of misuse of these laws and by taking appropriate steps in the Supreme Court of India.
    · Appoint full time qualified Investigating Officers (who should be held responsible if any misuse of the law is reported) and notifies Service Providers and medical facilities.
    · Impose legal sanctions all women (and their helpers) who are misusing the law.
    · We request all of you to sign this e – petition to support the above-mentioned ruling of the Supreme Court of India. Please write letters separately to the Chief Justice of India with copies to us:

    We also request you to forward it further amongst your partners, networks and friends.

    Please support our cause, Those anti social Women organisation influenced by wester ideas, Which are total against Interest of Indian Family system

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    Demand for gifts after wedding not dowry: SC

    Posted by 498A_Crusader on February 1, 2008

    NEW DELHI: The Supreme Court has ruled that demand for money and presents from parents of a married girl at the time of birth of her child or for other ceremonies, as is prevalent in society, may be deprecable but cannot be categorised as dowry to make it a punishable offence.

    This means, if a daughter-in-law is being harassed for customary gifts by parents-in-law, then they could be booked under ordinary penal provisions but not under the tough anti-dowry laws providing stringent punishments.

    Acquitting the parents-in-law of a woman who had accused them of harassing her for dowry, a Bench comprising Justices Arijit Pasayat and S Sathasivam took help of a 2001 judgment of SC to say that not all demands from the parents-in-law could be categorised as ‘dowry’ under the Dowry Prohibition Act. It said though the Act covers payment of money or articles during, before or after marriage by the girl’s parent to her in-laws, the cash and presents given had to have a link with the marriage to become objectionable in law.

    “Other payments which are customary payments, for example given at the time of birth of a child or other ceremonies as are prevalent in different societies, are not covered by the expression ‘dowry’,” said Justice Pasayat, writing the judgment for the Bench.

    A Haryana trial court had continued the dowry harassment charges against the woman’s husband while acquitting the parents-in-law, the married sister and brother of the husband. Though the high court allowed quashing of charges against the sister and brother, it said the parents-in-law were liable to be proceeded against.

    The apex court said that when the trial court had held that an attempt had been made by the woman to rope in as many relatives of her husband as possible, the HC should have given some reasons while reversing a well-reasoned order.

    It said judicial discipline demanded the HCs to give clear reasons when reversing a trial court order backed by facts. “Reasons substitute subjectivity by objectivity. The emphasis on recording reasons is that if the decision reveals the ‘inscrutible face of the sphinx’, it can, by its silence, render it virtually impossible for the courts to perform their appellate function or exercise the power of judicial review in adjudicating the validity of the decision,” the Bench said.
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    Justice Mallimat Committee recomendations on 498A

    Posted by 498A_Crusader on January 28, 2008

    Page 199:
    16.4.3 If the woman victim lodges an F.I.R alleging commission of
    offence under Section 498A, her husband, in-laws and other relatives of the
    husband would be arrested immediately. If she has no independent source of
    income she has to return to her natal family where also support may not be
    forthcoming. Her claim for maintenance would be honoured more in default
    than in payment especially if the husband has lost his job or suspended from his
    job due to the arrest. Where maintenance is given, it is often a paltry sum.
    (Thus the woman is neither here nor there. She has just fallen from the frying
    pan into the fire.) Even when there is a divorce, or reconciliation, the criminal
    case continues as Section 498A is non compoundable.
    16.4.4 In less tolerant impulsive woman may lodge an FIR even on a
    trivial act. The result is that the husband and his family may be immediately
    arrested and there may be a suspension or loss of job. The offence alleged
    being non-bailable, innocent persons languish in custody. There may be a claim
    for maintenance adding fuel to fire, if the husband cannot pay. She may change
    her mind and get into the mood to forget and forgive. The husband may realize
    the mistakes committed and come forward to turn a new leaf for a loving and
    cordial relationship. The woman may like to seek reconciliation. But this may
    not be possible due to the legal obstacles. Even if she wishes to make amends
    by withdrawing the complaint, she can not do so as the offence is non
    compoundable. The doors for returning to family life stand closed. She is thus
    left at the mercy of her natal family.
    16.4.5 This section, therefore, helps neither the wife nor the husband. The
    offence being non-bailable and non-compoundable makes an innocent person
    undergo stigmatization and hardship. Heartless provisions that make the offence
    non-bailable and non-compoundable operate against reconciliations. It is
    therefore necessary to make this offence (a) bailable and (b) compoundable to
    give a chance to the spouses to come together.

    Page : 298 :

    16. OFFENCES AGAINST WOMEN
    There are several shortcomings or aberrations in dealing with the offences
    against women which need to be addressed. The Committee feels that a man
    who marries a second wife during the subsistence of the first wife should not
    escape his liability to maintain his second wife under Section 125 of the Code
    on the grounds that the second marriage is neither lawful nor valid.
    The Supreme Court has held that, for proving bigamy, it is to be
    established that the second marriage was performed in accordance with the
    customary rites of either parties under the personal laws which is not easy to
    prove. Therefore the Committee feels that evidence regarding a man and
    woman living together for a reasonably long period should be sufficient to draw
    the presumption that the marriage was performed according to the customary
    rites of the parties.
    As a man can be punished under Section 497 of IPC for adultery, for
    having sexual intercourse with a wife of another man it stands to reason that
    wife should likewise be punished if she has sexual intercourse with another
    married man.
    There is a general complaint that section 498A of the IPC regarding cruelty
    by the husband or his relatives is subjected to gross misuse and many times
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    operates against the interest of the wife herself. This offence is non-bailable and
    non-compoundable. Hence husband and other members of the family are arrested
    and can be behind the bars which may result in husband losing his job. Even if the
    wife is willing to condone and forgive the lapse of the husband and live in
    matrimony, this provision comes in the way of spouses returning to the
    matrimonial home. This hardship can be avoided by making the offence bailable
    and compoundable.
    As instances of non-penal penetration are on the increase and they do not
    fall in the definition under the offence of rape under Section 375 of the IPC, the
    Committee feels that such non-penal penetration should be made an offence
    prescribing a heavier punishment.
    The Committee is not in favour of imposing death penalty for the offence of
    rape, for in its opinion the rapists may kill the victim. Instead the Committee
    recommends sentence of imprisonment for life without commutation or remission.
    The Committee however feels that investigation and trial of rape cases
    should be done with most expedition and with a high degree of sensitivity. The
    Committee therefore, makes the following recommendations:
    (115) Definition of the word ‘wife’ in Section 125 of the Code be amended to
    include a woman who was living with the man like his wife for
    reasonable long period.
    (116) Section 494 of the I.P.C be suitably amended to the effect that if the
    man and woman were living together as husband and wife for a
    reasonable long period the man shall be deemed to have married the
    woman according to the customary rites of either party.
    (117) Section 497 of the Indian Penal Code regarding offence of Adultery be
    amended to include wife who has sexual intercourse with a married
    man, by substituting the words “whosoever has sexual intercourse with
    the spouse of any other person is guilty of adultery”.
    (118) The Code may be suitably amended to make the offence under Section
    498 A of the I.P.Code, bailable and compoundable.
    (119) Forcible penetration, penile/oral, penile/anal, object or finger/vaginal
    and object or finger/anal should be made a separate offence under the
    IPC prescribing appropriate punishment on the lines of Section 376 of
    I.P.Code.
    (120) The Committee is not in favour of prescribing death penalty for the offence of rape.
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    Instead the Committee recommends sentence of imprisonment for life
    without commutation or remission.
    (121) A suitable provision should be made requiring the officer investigating
    to complete investigation of cases of rape and other sexual offences on
    priority basis and requiring the court to dispose of such cases
    expeditiously within a period of four months.
    (122) Specialised training should be imparted to the Magistrates in regard to
    trial of cases of rape and other sexual offences to instill in them
    sensitivity to the feelings, image, dignity and reputation etc of the
    victim.
    (123) Provision should be made in the Code permitting filing of F.I.Rs in
    respect of offences under Sections 376, 376-A, 376-B, 376-C, 376-D
    and 377 of IPC within a reasonable time.

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    Businessman wants to sue minister Renuka

    Posted by 498A_Crusader on January 28, 2008

    Vadodara, January 28 After filing a case against Union Minister for Women and Child Development (WCD) Renuka Chowdhury before the Election Commission for misleading the people during the December poll campaign, city-based businessman Vijay Wadhwani has now sought permission from the Prime Minister’s Office (PMO) to file a court case against her.
    Wadhwani has objected to Chowdhury’s remarks made during the Gujarat Assembly elections that the Domestic Violence Act is not being implemented in the state.

    In his four-page application to the PMO, he said, “Union Minister Chowdhury had deliberately lied to the people of this great nation, and especially to the people of Gujarat. As per United Nation Development Fund for Women (UNIFEM), in October 2007, Gujarat had appointed 25 protection officers as part of the process to implement this Act.”

    He has now asked the PMO for permission for filing a case under Section 197 of the CrPC and under Section 500 of the IPC and other related sections or a PIL against her. The businessman has also requested Prime Minister Manmohan Singh to guide the EC to make necessary changes in its laws pertaining to the violation of the election code of conduct.

    Wadhwani, who runs a chemical business, said, “Renukaji is handling an extremely sensitive ministry. Hence, the concerned people of India are worried about the honest functioning of the WCD ministry under her leadership, as the impact on males is extreme under the Domestic Violence Act.” He added that she should have apologised for hurting the sentiments of the people of this nation.

    In his complaint, Wadhwani further said: “Even MP Rahul Gandhi during his election speeches had said that Gujarat had promised to achieve total literacy but still 30 per cent people were illiterate. After elections, we will give you a new government, which won’t be based on lies. Rahul’s another speech said that the Modi government hides behind lies.”

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    Narender Kumar and Anr – (498a) Justice Dhingra Verdict

    Posted by 498A_Crusader on January 27, 2008

    IN THE HIGH COURT OF DELHI AT NEW DELHI

    Date of Reserve: 03.9.2007
    Date of Order: 01.11.2007

    Crl.Appeal No. 696/2004 01.11.2007

    Narender Kumar and Anr. … Appellants Through: Mr. Atul Jain, Advocate

    Versus

    State (Govt. of NCT of Delhi) … Respondent Through: Mr. Sunil K. Kapoor, Advocate

    Crl.Appeal No. 748/2004

    Vijay Kumar and Anr. … Appellants Through: Mr. Atul Jain, Advocate

    Versus

    State (Govt. of NCT of Delhi) … Respondent Through: Mr. Sunil K. Kapoor, Advocate

    Crl.Appeal No. 787/2004

    Gyan Prakash … Appellant Through: Mr. Atul Jain, Advocate

    Versus

    State (Govt. of NCT of Delhi) … Respondent Through: Mr. Sunil K. Kapoor, Advocate

    Crl.Appeal No. 749/2004

    Jeevani Devi @ Jamuna Devi … Appellant Through: Mr. Atul Jain, Advocate

    Versus

    State (Govt. of NCT of Delhi) … Respondent Through: Mr. Sunil K. Kapoor, Advocate

    CORAM

    JUSTICE SHIV NARAYAN DHINGRA

    1. Whether reporters of local papers may be allowed to see the judgment? Yes.

    2. To be referred to the reporter or not ? Yes.

    3. Whether judgment should be reported in Digest ? Yes.
    JUDGMENT:
    1. These appeals have been preferred against the judgment of
    learned Additional Sessions Judge dated 10th September, 2004 whereby he
    convicted the appellants under Section 498A read with Section 34 IPC and Section
    307 read with Section 34 IPC and against the order of sentence dated 14th
    September, 2004 whereby he sentenced each of the appellants to undergo RI for 02
    years and a fine of Rs.3,000/- under Section 498A and RI for 07 years and a fine
    of RS.5,000/- under Section 307/34 IPC.

    2. The brief facts necessary for deciding these appeals are that
    complainant Veena Rani was married to accused Gyan Prakash on 24th November,
    1997. She was admitted to Safdarjung Hospital on 9th May, 2002 by her husband
    at about 10.00 p.m. with 25 % burns. She told the doctor that she received burn
    injuries accidentally while she was cooking food on LPG stove and her dupatta
    caught fire accidentally resulting into burn injuries. Her MLC Ex. PW 3/1 shows
    that her pulse rate, Blood Pressure were normal her chest was clean she was
    oriented to time, place and persons. The injuries present on her body showed
    that she was having thermal burns on upper parts of the body i.e. upper exteme
    face, lower abdomen and some patches over the back. Police was informed of the
    admission by the duty constable in hospital vide DD No. 4A (Ex. PW 1/1) on the
    night of 9th and 10th May, 2002. The investigation was given to ASI Ramesh
    Chand, who requested SDM to come to hospital and record statement of Smt. Veena.
    Statement of Smt. Veena was recorded by SDM on 10th May, 2002. Doctor’s
    endorsement of her being fit for giving statement is Ex. PW 12/1. In her
    statement given to SDM (Ex. PW 2/2) she stated that on previous night around
    7.00 p.m. she was at home, her jethani and mother-in-law were also at home, LPG
    Stove was lying on floor. She was standing near the stove and food was being
    cooked. Her dupatta caught fire from the LPG stove and she cried of catching
    fire, her mother-in-law and jethani extinguished the fire. Her husband was on
    duty at the time of incident. Thereafter, she was brought to hospital by her
    husband. She had been living happily with her family and was not being harassed
    for dowry, everybody in the family loved her. The incident was an accident and
    she had no doubt on anyone. She was in full senses and gave the statement
    without any pressure.
    3. Father of complainant Roshan Lal came to see her on 10th May,
    2002 itself. On 11th May, 2002, her father made an application Ex. PW5/1 to
    SDM wherein he stated that her daughter Veena was being mistreated by her in-
    laws. His son-in-law Gyan Prakash was having no business or work and due to
    this reason his family members used to throw him out of the house and on this
    attitude of family of his son-in-law, he had to bring his daughter to his own
    house sometime for four months and sometime for six months. His daughter was
    having one son, who was also living with him for about last three years. Due to
    unemployment of his son-in-law he got his daughter employed in a private firm as
    a labour, so that she could maintain herself. During this period he had also
    been sending his daughter to in-laws house with the help of inter-mediators.
    Mother-in-law of his daughter told him that he should get his son-in-law Gyan
    Prakash settled by opening a clothier shop for him. Since he (father-in-law)
    was not a rich person this was not possible for him. On 9th May, 2002 around
    7.00 p.m. girl’s two jeths (brothers-in-law) viz. Narender and Vijay, two
    jethanis (sisters-in-law) viz. Om Prabha and Nirmal and mother-in-law viz.
    Jeevani Devi @ Jamuna Devi and her husband Gyan Prakash poured kerosene oil on
    his daughter and set her on fire. He was not informed of the incident.
    However, he got information on 10th May, 2002 at 10.00 a.m. from some
    acquaintance that Veena had met with an accident. So, when he went to know well
    being of his daughter at her in-laws’ house there her father-in-law Pandit
    Prabhati Lal told him that Veena was in burns ward of the Safdarjung Hospital.
    When he reached Safdarjung Hospital he learnt that SDM had already recorded his
    daughter’s statement. His daughter told him that she made statement to SDM as
    per the wishes of her in-laws since her in-laws had threatened her that they
    would kill her and her son and that she would be divorced. By his application
    Ex. PW5/1 he requested SDM that another statement of his daughter Veena should
    be recorded.

    4. After the application made by father of complainant, SDM again
    recorded a statement of the complainant Venna (Ex. PW 2/1). In this statement
    complainant stated that her husband Gyan Prakash used to do a private job and
    she herself was doing a private job. She was having a child around 3 ? years
    old. For about a month after her marriage she was kept by her in-laws properly
    thereafter her in-laws started harassing her on small things. She remained at
    her parents house for 8-9 months thereafter. She was again called by her in-
    laws after a compromise and she remained at her in-laws for about two months
    thereafter. After two months she was against harassed for dowry. She used to
    be told that she had no brother and she had brought so less dowry. She again
    went to her parents’ house and lived there for about 8-9 months and again came
    back to her in-laws house after a compromise and she was living at her in-laws
    house since 8th December, 2001. About 15 days before the incident she had a
    quarrel with her Jeth and mother-in-law. Her in-laws had purchased a Maruti Car
    on the day of Holi Festival and they told her that in case she wanted to remain
    alive she should bring 2 ? lac rupees or a clothier shop be opened for her
    husband in Chandni Chowk. She refused to accede to these demands telling her
    that her father had no money. On this she was told to pack up and go from the
    house. This quarrel continued till the days of the incident. On the night of
    Wednesday again a similar quarrel took place and her in-laws gave her beatings
    and all went for sleeping. On Thursday morning she got up and cooked meals and
    got ready for going to office. She was told by her in-laws that in case she
    wanted her safety, she should bring 2 ? lac from her parents or she should call
    her father. She however, went to her office/job and after doing her job came
    back home. When she came back from office, all members of the family viz. both
    her jeths, jethanis and mother-in-law were sitting in the house. Her in-laws
    asked her why she had not brought her parents. When she went to her room, she
    found that her goods were lying packed. Her mother-in-law and jethani abused
    her and told her that she should pick up her goods and go away. When she
    refused they bolted the main gate from inside and her jeth said that she should
    be beaten. Jethani said that she should be burnt and cremated. In the meantime
    her mother-in-law brought kerosene oil in a tin and poured kerosene oil on her.
    When she cried then her elder jethani lit fire and set her ablaze. She cried
    for being saved then all of them went away from there. A bucket full of water
    was lying there, she picked up the bucket, poured water on herself the fire got
    extinguished. She asked them to take her to hospital, on this they started
    beating her. She kept lying in the house for about two hours and they told her
    that they would take her to hospital only if she would not testify against them
    otherwise her son and father would be killed. When she agreed to this, she was
    removed to hospital. She was also threatened on the way to hospital and even
    beaten. She made her earlier statement under pressure. Her earlier statement
    was not correct. Since her parents had met her in the hospital now she was
    under no fear and had made the statement without pressure. Her mother-in-law
    her jeths viz. Narender and Vijay, her husband Gyan Prakash her jethanis Om
    Prabha and Nirmal had burnt her.

    5. The accused persons were put to trial under Section
    406/498/307/34 IPC. Smt. Veena appeared as PW 2 and testified against the
    accused persons more vehemently, making improvements even over her second
    statement given to the SDM. Her father and mother also testified against the
    accused persons and based on the statements, the appellants were convicted.

    6. The learned Trial Court observed that the two contradictory
    statements made by Veena before SDM have been explained and the testimony of the
    complainant given in the Court was trustworthy and cannot be looked upon with
    suspicion. The Trial Court also observed that had the complainant been having
    nice time with her in-laws and been loved and respected as stated in the first
    statement, she would not have turned a somersault and implicated everyone of her
    family merely because her father had come to the hospital and met her. The
    Trial Court observed that earlier statement made to the SDM was under a threat
    and therefore could not be used to erase the credibility of complainant’s
    testimony in the Court. The Trial Court also observed that had the incident
    been an accident only, the appellant would have not concealed the incident from
    the father of the complainant and would have immediately informed the father of
    the complainant. The fact that father of the complainant was not informed about
    the incident by the in-laws/appellants proves guilty mind of the appellants.
    The Trial Court brushed aside the contradictions in the ocular testimony of
    complainant and the medical evidence observing the same being inconsequential
    holding that the doctor who examined her had not taken the case of the
    complainant seriously and considered it as a case of accident and not a case of
    burning. Trial Court also brushed aside the contradiction in the stand taken by
    the complainant about the incident in her maintenance petition and in the Court
    on the ground that there must have been communication gap. There were other
    contradictions in the statement of complainant made in the Court and the earlier
    statement but all these were considered as immaterial by the Trial Court.

    7. It is argued by the counsel for the appellants that the Trial
    Court had grossly ignored the entire sequence of the evidence and the
    circumstances which proved that the complainant had made false statement in the
    Court out of vengeance, only to see that her husband, who was not earning well
    and was not able to maintain her properly and the in-laws should be taught a lesson.

    8. As per testimony of PW 2 complainant, made in the Court after
    marriage, the accused started asking her to bring 2 ? lac from her father or to
    get a shop opened for her husband. This part of the testimony is contrary to
    Ex. PW 5/1, a written application made by her father to SDM wherein her father
    had clearly stated that her son-in-law Gyan Prakash was unemployed and for this
    reason he was turned out by his family and he (PW 5) was forced to keep his
    daughter with him sometime for 04 months and sometime for 06 months and he also
    had to get his daughter employed as a labour in a private company. She in her
    statement to SDM and in court tried to make out a case as if she lived at her
    parents’ house for 8-9 months together due to dowry demands. Her statement in
    Court is also contrary to her second statement made to SDM implicating her in-
    laws. In Ex. PW 2/1 she talked of demand of Rs. 2 ? lac after purchase of a car
    by in-laws on Holi festival of 2002 while deposing in Court she alleged of this
    demand from day one of her marriage. It is clear that it was not a case where
    the in-laws were demanding 2 ? lac after marriage of the girl but it was a case
    where the girl was married with a boy who was practically unemployed and had no
    source of earning. The boy must have been unable to earn livelihood and for
    this reason he was being turned out from the house by his own family members.
    Had the in-laws been trying to extract money and been asking Rs. 2 ? lac from
    the parents of the girl, they would not have turned out their own son. Once a
    person grows up and attains age of majority, gets married, he has to earn for
    himself and his wife. His elder brothers or parents cannot be expected to
    sustain him and his family even after his marriage. Because of joint family
    system prevalent in India sometimes the parents go out of way to help such of
    their sons, who are not able to earn properly and do establish them in business
    or help them to earn livelihood but that is possible only if the parents are
    having enough money for this. Where the parents belong to poor or middle class
    and do not have enough money to extend this help, they have no alternative but
    to turn out such non-earning persons hoping that this would compel him to
    sustain himself by striving and struggling. Ex. PW 5/1 is the first admitted
    written account from complainant’s father that Gyan Prakash was being turned out
    from house time and again, so that he was able to sustain himself and struggle
    for himself and it seems ultimately Gyan Prakash got some private job and
    started going on work. Complainant in order to sustain herself also got a
    private job with the help of her father and the couple left their son with
    maternal grand parents out of poverty. The initial period of their married life
    went like that. It has come in evidence that father of the girl was running a
    clothier shop in Gurgaon. It is possible that the parents of Gyan Prakash had
    asked father of the complainant to help Gyan Prakash in opening a clothier shop
    when he was unemployed however, there was no dowry demand alleged by PW 5 in his
    application Ex. PW 5/1. Had there been any persistent dowry demand as testified
    by PW 2, nobody stopped PW 5 from writing the same in his application made to SDM.

    9. Let me consider the different statements made by the complainant
    in this case. In her first statement, she told SDM that she met with an
    accident. Presuming that this statement and the story of accident told by the
    complainant to the SDM was made under pressure but there was no pressure on the
    complainant as far as other facts are concerned. In her first statement, made
    to SDM she stated that her husband was on duty at the time of incident and at
    that time her mother-in-law and jethani were at home. One may consider that
    there may be pressure on her to say that she had caught fire by accident but
    there could be no pressure on her to mis-state about the presence of persons in
    the house at the time of the incident. As per her first statement, except her
    mother-in-law and one jethani, no one was present at home at the time of
    incident. However, in the second statement Ex. PW 2/1 she stated that her
    mother-in-law, two jeths and two jethanis were present at the time of incident
    and her husband was not there when incident of burning took place. Her jethani
    and mother-in-law bolted the outer door from inside. In her statement before
    the Court she went further and made her husband also present at the time of
    incident and stated that it was her husband who bolted the door from inside at
    the time of incident. It is obvious that her testimony in respect of presence
    of persons at the time of incident is changing from one statement to other and
    the effort was gradually to implicate every member of the family. This reflects
    the mental process of the complainant who seems to wrack vengeance against the
    family by implicating one after statements of the family members in successive.

    10. In her testimony, she alleged that a number of times she used
    to be confined in a room under lock and sometimes she used to be kept hungry for
    two days at stretch and sometimes she used to be turned out of the house. She
    has not stated any such thing in Ex. PW 2/1 her second statement to SDM.
    Moreover, she was a working girl. She was attending her office at Gurgaon and
    used to commute by the conveyance provided by the company, as is admitted by her
    in her cross examination. She was working as a labour. If she had been
    confined in the room for a number of days she would not have been able to attend
    office and would have been terminated from service for regular absence from the
    office. This aspect of her testimony whether she was attending office regularly
    or not could not be verified by the IO because she in her statement to the SDM
    had not stated that she was confined by her in-laws in the room. Keeping her
    hungry is also not believable since she was living with her husband in a
    separate room, as is admitted by her in cross-examination and she was going to
    office daily. She herself stated that on the day of incident she had cooked
    meal in the morning and went to office. A lady who used to cook food herself
    cannot be kept hungry by others. Moreover, she had every opportunity of taking
    meals at her work place. Her purse recovered from the room contained Rs.1,500/-
    showing she used to carry sufficient money to enable her to meet her
    requirements. In her statement before the SDM she stated that her husband was
    doing a private job, while in her testimony before Court she stated that her
    husband was not working anywhere. In her statement before the SDM she stated
    that she was being taunted by in-laws that she had no brother while in her
    testimony she admitted that she had a brother. In such a case nobody could have
    taunted her that she had no brother. In her testimony she stated that there was
    no telephone at her parents’ house and telephone was installed only after the
    incident. However, her father PW 5 in his testimony stated that there was a
    telephone in house even before the incident and demand of Rs. 2 ? lac was made
    by mother-in-law on telephone and accused Narender and Vijay also talked on
    telephone. He also asserted that he was informed about the incident by some
    acquaintance on telephone.

    11. Her testimony seen in the light of previous admitted statement
    shows that in order to implicate each member of the family she changed the
    version of incident. In her testimony in the Court she described the incident
    of burning her differently. She stated that her mother-in-law Jeevani Devi @
    Jamuna brought Kerosene Oil and when she tried to save herself running here and
    there, she was held by her both jeths (brothers-in-law) and her sisters-in-law
    Nirmal pressed her hand against her mouth to prevent her from raising alarm and
    then mother-in-law poured kerosene oil and her elder sister-in-law Om Prabha set
    her ablaze. Her husband had bolted the main door from inside and did not try to
    save her. After she was set ablaze, she rushed to tap and poured water kept in a
    bucket on her. She also tore her clothes and extinguished the fire, of her own
    efforts. Her testimony in the Court was recorded on 1st May, 2003. She was in
    a better position to remember the details on 11th May, 2002 i.e. soon after the
    incident when she described the incident to SDM in Ex. PW 2/1. The description
    of incident given by her in her statement to SDM on 14th May, 2002 is altogether
    different from the description given by her in the statement given in the Court.
    She has nowhere stated in her earlier statement that she had torn her clothes.
    She did not state that she was held by her two jeths or her mouth was gagged by
    her jethani Nirmal or her husband bolted the door from inside and kept watching
    but did not try to save. In a case of maintenance her allegations changed. Her
    unemployed husband suddenly started earning Rs.8,000/- p.m. and she was set
    ablaze by her jethani Nimal and not Om Prabha. All these improvements and
    changing versions have been made by her just to see that entire family is
    implicated.
    12. It is her own case that a container of 05 litres of kerosene
    oil was poured on her. 05 litres of kerosene oil is an enormous quantity of oil
    and if this quantity is poured on a person and fire is lit, he/she will
    immediately turn into a fire ball. Presuming that the complainant had
    extinguished the fire immediately by pouring a bucket full of water on herself
    and by tearing her clothes, in that case the unburnt kerosene oil would remain
    on clothes and she would have been profusely smelling of kerosene oil. Not only
    her clothes but her entire body would have been drenched with kerosene oil and
    her clothes would have been drenched with kerosene oil and water. It is not her
    case that when she was removed to hospital her clothes were changed or she was
    washed off and bathed, rather her allegations are that she was continuously
    beaten for two hours before having been removed to the hospital and she kept
    lying there for two hours in kerosene oil and water. It cannot be believed that
    on seeing a patient in such a condition, doctor would have closed his eyes and
    would not record the condition in the MLC. There is no mention of smell of
    kerosene oil coming from her body in MLC, there is no mention of traces of
    kerosene oil on her clothes, there is no mention of her clothes being torn,
    there is no injury on any part of her body except the burn injuries in the MLC.
    A woman, who had been continuously beaten for about two hours definitely would
    receive some injury on some part of the body but no injury of the nature was
    found on her body as per MLC. The oral testimony of Smt. Veena/complainant is
    totally in contradiction with the medical testimony.

    13. It is rightly said that men may lie but circumstances do not.
    Her lies have been nailed down by the circumstances. There is no seizure of
    torn clothes soaked with kerosene oil or water, there is no seizure of kerosene
    oil container by the IO moreover, there is no mention of kerosene oil smell
    either from body or from clothes and there is no mention of torn clothes by the
    doctor in the MLC. All these circumstances show that the entire story put
    forward by the complainant was a cooked up story and no kerosene oil was poured on her.

    14. If two of her jeths had caught her so that she could be doused
    with kerosene oil and one jethani had gagged her mouth as alleged by her,
    nothing would have stopped them from burning her completely so that she did not
    survive. It only seems that none of the persons except mother-in-law and one
    jethani were even present when incident of burning took place and the incident
    seems to be an accidental burning and that is why she received only 25% burns at
    upper part of her body near neck. The nature of injuries confirms to her first
    version that her dupatta caught fire, fire travelled through dupatta to her
    upper portion. Since dupatta is normally worn by ladies around neck and keeps
    hanging the burns in this case seen to be due to presence of dupatta on the
    upper portion i.e. on neck and back that fire had travelled through dupatta on
    the upper parts of clothes worn by her.

    15. Trial Court has heavily relied upon a presumption against the
    accused persons that parents of the girl were not informed. This is also belied
    by the witnesses. PW 13 (Raghbir Prashad) is brother-in-law of the complainant
    (sister’s husband). He learnt about the incident on 9th May, 2002 i.e. on the
    day when the incident happened from his father-in-law who informed him on
    telephone about the incident. However, he did not visit Veena at the hospital
    and met Veena at her residence only after 5-7 days of the incident. This
    witness has not been cross examined by the APP on any point. He is a
    prosecution witness. This testimony cannot be brushed aside. This shows that
    father of girl was informed on 9th May, 2002 itself, that is why he could inform
    PW 13 on telephone on 9th May, 2002 but since the incident was not so serious
    and the burns were received accidentally and complainant was not in any danger
    of life, it was not taken seriously by this witness and he did not even visit
    his sister-in-law at the hospital and met her only when she came back home after
    5 days. The non-serious nature of the incident is also reflected from the testimony of Smt. Kanta PW 6, who is mother of the complainant. She stated that
    she was informed about the incident by her husband, who made her a telephone
    call in the morning of Saturday i.e. 11th May, 2002 and thereafter she went to
    hospital. Had the incident been serious her husband would have informed her at
    least on 10th May, 2002 when she claimed that he learnt about the incident and
    she also would have visited her on the same day along with her husband.

    16. PW 2 testified in the Court that after getting her bandaged,
    none of her in-laws looked after her and all left the hospital. Her testimony
    is belied by the testimony of her own father. Her father stated that when he
    reached hospital on 10th May, 2002 her mother-in-law, brother-in-laws etc. all
    met him in the hospital. Similar is the testimony of her mother, who visited her
    on 11th May, 2002. It shows that PW 2 was out to speak patent lies in the
    Court.

    17. There is another important factor in this case which shows that
    the case of dowry demand and breach of trust under Section 406 IPC was falsely
    foisted on the accused persons. PW 11 Sushma Rawat, SI CAW Cell, who
    investigated the case testified that she had visited the house along with the
    complainant and all her jewellery, dowry articles etc. were found in the room in
    which she was residing when she was living with her in-laws. It was her room
    and there was an almirah in the room and the key of the almirah was in the purse
    of the complainant. The purse was also lying in the same room and her entire
    jewellery and Rs.1500 were found in the almirah. That shows that complainant
    and her husband were living separate in one room and her entire dowry articles
    and istridhan was in her own custody and none of the other in-laws had any kind
    of greed to take away her jewellery or her articles neither her goods were lying
    packed. The story of demand of Rs.2 ? lac seems to be an invention made by the
    complainant and her father just to make a false case against the accused
    persons. Her father in his testimony stated that mother-in-law and brothers-in-
    law demanded Rs.2 ? lac from her on telephone much prior to the incident. Had
    it been so PW 5 in his written application Ex. PW 5/1 would have mentioned about
    this demand because in this application he has mentioned everything possible
    against the accused persons. A demand of Rs.2 ? lac seem to be invented in
    consultation before making statement to the SDM and that is why when subsequent
    statement was recorded by the SDM of complainant, her father and mother this
    demand was included in the statement while prior to that in Ex. PW 5/1 there is
    no mention of demand of Rs.2.5 lac neither it is mentioned that boy wanted a
    shop for him to be established in Chandni Chowk, what mentioned is the abject
    poverty of the boy and his inability to earn.

    18. I consider that the story of the complainant that she was
    threatened by her husband and in-laws for making statement to doctor and SDM
    about her accidental burning is palpably false. Her husband was not even at
    home when the incident took place. Her husband used to go for his job and
    perhaps come back home after the arrival of his wife. He was working as a
    labour. The son of parties was living at Gurgaon with father of the girl. Her
    husband was not a criminal neither it is alleged that he had any criminal
    background. A poor man who was starving for his survival and had to work as a
    labour from morning till evening for livelihood, could not have given threats to
    kill his own son and father-in-law. This story of threat seems to have been
    developed later on by the complainant in consultation with father. The question
    would arise why the complainant would falsely implicate her in-laws. It is
    undisputed that complainant was not happy with her matrimonial life. Her
    husband was an idle man, who earlier was not doing any job. Complainant had to
    live at her parents’ house for 8-9 months together because of poverty of her
    husband. Complainant’s son was also being brought up by her father because of
    the poor financial condition of her husband. Complainant herself had to take a
    job as a labour. She was living with her husband while her son was living with
    her father in Gurgaon, miles away. It seems that after the incident her father advised her to call it a day and break this relationship once for all. But
    simultaneously it seems that it was decided that the in-laws must be taught a
    lesson for ruining the life of the complainant as she was got married to a
    worthless boy. May be some false representations were made at the time of the
    marriage about the worth of the boy. It is not uncommon that someone may decide
    to end the unhappy married life. It looks that the complainant made allegations
    of threat etc. only to turn a ‘U’ turn, as she and her parents had decided to
    call it a day for the unhappy married life of the complainant.

    19. It must be understood that god had not made any two persons
    same with the same ideas, qualities and it must be acknowledged that marriages
    do fail and there is a mismatch not only in arranged marriages but even in love
    marriages. The mismatch is discovered during the continuation of married life.
    No doubt poverty is a curse and a poor man has to suffer in the society at
    different fronts but I consider that despite poverty being a curse, poverty
    cannot be made a crime. Neither the failed marriage can be made a crime. In
    this case, the poverty was not only a curse for the boy but it made to be a
    crime since due to his poor condition he could not provide all that which he
    should have provided to the wife and the wife ultimately saw to it that not only
    he but everyone of his other family members land in jail. Every marriage that
    fails does not fail due to dowry demand or cruelties. The marriages do fail for
    several other reaons including the reason of incompatibility of the persons. A
    failed marriage is not a crime however, the provisions of Section 498A are being
    used to convert failed marriages into a crime and the people are using this as
    tool to extract as much monetary benefit as possible. In many cases, where FIRs
    are filed under Section 498A IPC, petitions are being filed under Section 482
    Cr.P.C. for quashing of FIRs after settlements between the parties and the
    allegations made of cruelties etc. are withdrawn the moment a lump sum payment
    is received. Involving each of the family members of the husband is another
    arm in the armory of the complainants of failed marriages. Not only close
    relatives but distant relatives and even neighbours are being implicated under
    Section 498A and other provisions of IPC in cases of failed marriages. The
    Courts must be very cautious during trials of such offences. In all these cases
    in the name of investigation, except recording statement of complainant and her
    few relatives nothing is done by police. The police does not verify any
    circumstantial evidence nor collect any other evidence about the claims made by
    the complainant. No evidence about giving of dowry or resources of the
    complainant’s family claiming spending of huge amounts is collected by the
    police. This all is resulting into gross misuse of the provisions of law. The
    investigating agency in all such cases must collect all circumstantial and other
    evidence in respect of claims made by the complainant and similarly Courts
    should always be careful in considering the credibility and truthfulness of the
    statement of the complainant and relatives.

    20. From the entire documents and the testimony of the witnesses I
    come to the conclusion that it is an unfortunate case where the complainant by
    making false statement implicated the entire family in offences of under Section
    307 and 498 A IPC. The Trial Court was not cautious enough to even look to
    admitted documents on record before convicting the family on mere statement of
    an estranged wife. Trial Courts should guard themselves from being swayed by
    emotions. They should consider entire circumstances and should carefully
    analyze the entire evidence. Poverty should not be allowed to become a crime.
    Neither failed marriage be permitted to be a crime.

    21 I allow these four appeals. All the persons/appellants are acquitted of Section 498A and Section 307 IPC.

    22. The appellants, namely, Gyan Prakash in Crl.Appeal No.787/2004 and Smt.Jeevani Devi @ Jamuna Devi in Crl.Appeal No.749/2004 are directed to be released forthwith.
    A copy of the judgment be sent to the Superintendent, Central Jail, Tihar.

    November 01, 2007 SHIV NARAYAN DHINGRA, J.

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    Why Alimony ?

    Posted by 498A_Crusader on January 27, 2008

    What is Alimony:
    Payment that a family court may order one person in a couple to make to the other person when that couple separates or divorces. Alimony is an award for support and maintenance that one spouse may be compelled to pay to another after dissolution of the marriage,

    In the common legal sense of the word, alimony is the allowance which by order of the court a husband pays to his wife for her maintenance while she is living separately from him, or the allowance or provision ordered by the court to be paid by her former husband to a divorced woman. There are two kinds of alimony, the one kind, alimony pendente lite, being an allowance to the wife pending a suit between herself and her husband, and the other the allowance or provision after suit, and which is known as permanent alimony. Source >> www.newadvent.org/cathen/01313a.htm

    American version of alimony with definition.:

    For example, suppose two individuals who married in 1985 agree in 1995 to divorce. At the time of the divorce, the husband earns $63,000 a year, after seven years at a large company where the top pay for his specialty is $80,000. When the couple married, he was in graduate school and the wife was earning $22,000. The wife worked for three more years, supporting the husband while he completed his coursework and graduated.
    When their first child was born, they agreed that the wife would care for the child at home. At the time of divorce, the wife had been working full-time for one year since the couple’s children, ages seven and six, had entered school. She was earning $23,000 a year and would have custody of the children.
    A judge in this case would certainly award child support and would probably divide marital property equally between the couple. But it might not seem fair to the judge to allow the husband to leave the marriage with the sole possession of the couple’s most valuable asset—his earning potential—when the wife contributed to his education by supporting him.
    Unlike the family’s home or station wagon, the husband’s earning power has not yet reached its full value, but it promises to grow. It seems especially unfair for the wife not to receive a share of it since after helping the husband attain his education she agreed to forfeit her earning power to invest time in the family. The several years she spent out of the workforce continue to handicap her earnings. Alimony is the only means available to the court to avoid a potentially unjust division of assets.

    Source : legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/alimony
    Scenario 1: When I Found a job in a big metropolitan city, I’m in search of accommodation; I asked my friends to look one for me. They found one lady ready to share her house, as she was staying alone. She told my friends that she will take huge amount of Advance or surety and Rent, but when I moved in she did not asked any nor after that. She was working in managerial capacity so she did not wanted any money as a rent, I was cooking myself, so she also joined me, as she liked my home food. She was out of house most of the house, and I was coming home early then I started to do house work cleaning also. She was paying all maintenance and bills of the house even every week she was ordering weekly ration / groceries. I hardly paid anything, as she knew I earn meager amount. As time passed by we drew closer and end up in BED together, we both enjoyed, I fulfilled all her fantasies and wild desires.

    Later after few years I fell in love with other girl, and she found out.
      After this incident, she asked me to vacate her house.
      I went to Police and gave complaint that she is harassing me and asking to vacate her house.

    BUT POLICE DID NOTHING AND THEY REFUSE TO TAKE MY COMPLAINT.

    I went to court asking support as I was homeless, and with meager salary it is difficult maintain myself in big metropolitan city.

    COURT ALSO DID NOT TAKE MY CASE.

    SCENARIO 2: I was having good job and my own house and very good reputation in society. I found a girl where I was working and she moved in with me and we started to live together. She was receptionist and she was working in fix time, so she was coming home early. I was in management position, so my timing was differing everyday. As she was coming early she was cooking and cleaning, and we got physical too. Most of the time I was coming late, business meeting and out of town visits. once I went to other town and told her I’ll be back after a week, but within 2 days I fell ill and I returned back to find this girl with her lover on my own bed.

    I asked her leave my house immediately, but she went to police and reported, that I’m harassing her and asking dowry.

    Police registered complaint on her one word, without varifing any facts, Even there was no enquiry or investigation; and I was in jail for 15 days till I got bail. Not only me she charged my old parents who never visited us and they were in 1000Km far away native place. All are booked under Dowry and domestic violence Act.

    When I came out of jail, she already got Court order to not to vacate her, and restrain me from my own house.

    In America (USA) wife is entitled for alimony on this example can be justified. (Ref:to receive a share of it since after helping the husband attain his education she agreed to forfeit her earning power to invest time in the family. The several years she spent out of the workforce continue to handicap her earnings) 

    BUT, THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS IN INDIA. (Two Scenarios)

    When marry Indian women bring nothing, nor her parents give anything to Man / Husband
    When man goes to police, complaining about his wife, Police never take any complaint, Even he produce proofs of threats and wound.
    When husband caught wife with her extra marital Affairs she can file dowry case and domestic Violence case on husband, even his old parents ho never visited her.
    Women can legally occupy husband house, even she never contribute anything to build the house.
    Even Husband is forced to pay her Alimony, Even he caught her Red handed.

    As Per Scenario #1
    If man goes to police they will not take complaint.
    Police will not arrest her
    Even she work and earn huge amount man is not entitled for alimony.

    Now the question is:
    We all know Wife hardly bring anything WHEN SHE MARRY
    She will not contribute ANYTHING to build house.
    What she do as a housewife, cooking and cleaning, servants also can do for less.
    In sex man is the not the only one WHO enjoy, she IS also enjoy.

    So when she leaves for her own fault why Indian men forced to pay ALIMONY.
    Why she get half of his Property, along with all gifts he gave.
    WHY THIS PARTIALITY
    WHY THIS STEP MOTHER POLICY.
    WHY ALIMONY.

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