Marriage vow only when guy is from IT
Posted by 498A_Crusader on May 29, 2007
CHENNAI: Fat pay packets, junkets and lavish lifestyle have made Information Technology professionals the most sought after in the matrimony market, leaving others to sweat it out to win a bride.
“Until a decade ago, there was a great demand for grooms in banking sector as it was considered a secured and peaceful job. But today, the IT men are the hottest in the marriage market,” says Murugavel Janakiraman, CEO of bharatmatrimony.com, a leading matrimony portal.
While men generally settle down for a good-looking, educated and caring bride, women look forward to a spouse who is well settled, capable of providing financial security.
With bulging pay packets and soaring career graph, the IT grooms are the ideal choice now, he adds.
According to a recent survey, about 70 per cent of youngsters prefer arranged marriages, leaving their parents to have a major say in matrimonial matters.
Surprisingly, grooms with government jobs are no more the favourites of elders and IT professionals have now become their blue-eyed boys.
Shanmugam, a marriage broker, says people are even prepared to spend beyond their capacity on a lavish marriage and extra dowry for a groom in the IT field.
Showing a bunch of biodata and horoscopes, he says about 70 per cent of them belong to IT professionals as the “demand” was very high. They are the popular choice even for girls in non-IT sectors, he adds.
At the age of 24, an IT professional can easily afford an apartment, car and a comfortable living, which may be an uphill task for his peer in any other field.
Shyam, a diploma holder working in a non-IT firm as systems engineer with almost nine years of experience, has been drawing a “decent salary” of Rs 16,000 per month.
But, he learnt the ground realities the hard way when he started searching for a bride two years ago.
“I was looking for an engineering graduate but I realised that my salary is not good enough to win a bride as the expectations are too high in the marriage market,” he says.
Pointing out that even freshers in the IT field are drawing around Rs 20,000 per month, his friends are advising him to switch over to that sector.
Now in his late 20s, Shyam has joined part-time BE course to get a bride at least if not an IT job.
The case of Ramachandran is no different. Working as a sub-editor in a media organisation, he is earning Rs 13,000 per month.
“I’ve posted my biodata on matrimony websites, but the response has not been encouraging. And the very first query that raises is about my monthly salary,” he rues.
He feels educated well-salaried girls have now become out of reach for “commoners” like him.
Though the IT boom has ushered in economic empowerment of lakhs of youngsters, it has also created an imbalance among the youth as privileged and under-privileged, he remarks.
darth vader said
Women always marry up. Your salary slip is your biggest certificate of recognition as far as these potential are concerned.
If a woman has two proposals -
One from a guy who is a governemnt clerk who earns about 10 k per month, with no habits and the other, a software pro/maanger earning 50k plus a month and who admits to drinking/smoking socially and partying, which one of these two would you think a modern woman will choose.
She will simply marry the latter and then if the marriage goes sour, blame his vices for it and then hold him up for ransom by 498A.
All men who earn well and have worked hard all their life to be in a financially secure position should think hard before embarking upon marriage in the current times.